Why Does Your Child Enjoy Rough And Tumble Play?

Rough And Tumble Play

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Does your child often exhibit a rough side when he plays? Are you worried that he may hurt himself or others around him? Do you wish to understand why he acts in such a way? If you can relate to these questions, you might want to read our post. Her we look at rough and tumble play in early childhood.

What Is Rough And Tumble Play?

Rough and tumble play is a form of playing, in which your child may reach out to another child or person in a playful way, but with a little more force. In some cases, rough and tumble form of playing may look like aggressive behavior to you. For your little one, it’s a way of trying to see who is more competitive and how he can use his sudden energy. Even though it may look like he is trying to hurt another child, rough and tumble play is mostly a positive behavior. Often, the line between rough and tumble play and aggressive behavior is quite flimsy.

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Why Does Your Child Enjoy Rough And Tumble Play?

For your child, rough and tumble play time is a good way may of letting loose and doing away with boundaries. Here are a few reasons that the particular form of play will appeal to your child:

  • It lets him understand his own strength and see what he can do with it.
  • Your child can see the shift in power even through the positive form of rough and tumble play.
  • It is a great way for him to compete with other children.
  • He may also use the form of rough and tumble play to understand what his friends or other children will and will not allow him to do. If you have multiple children at home, your kids might share the form of play time with siblings to find out what all they can do.
  • Rough and tumble play form may also involve role play games. In such a case, your child will try to understand the various relationships that emerge in a social setting.

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Common Forms Of Rough And Tumble Play:

Your child may develop his own form of rough and tumble play while he is playing with a sibling or a group of friends. Here are some commonly known forms of rough and tumble play that your child may take part in:

  • Tickling
  • Arm wrestling
  • Full body wrestling
  • Boxing
  • Kicking
  • Hitting and running
  • Swinging
  • Chasing
  • Spinning
  • Grappling
  • Restraining
  • Play fighting
  • Jumping and running

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Are There Any Benefits Of Rough And Tumble Play?

Rough and tumble may still sound dangerous to you, but it does have certain benefits for your child:

  • Through the game, he will learn what is appropriate behavior and what is not.
  • He will also understand the significance of boundaries and personal space.
  • Rough and tumble play is a great way to let him channelize his energies, but also restrain it if you feel it gets out of hand.
  • Such form of play also involves switching roles. For example, your child may be chasing someone earlier, but now in his new role, he has to run away while being chased. It allows him to experience a gamut of feelings and develop different strategies as per the given role.

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How To Ensure No One Will Get Hurt During Rough And Tumble Play?

Before your child begins the rough and tumble form of playing, make sure you put down the following rules, each time if necessary:

  • No one will kick another child or play a game that involves kicking one another.
  • Pulling hair or hitting on someone’s head is not allowed.
  • Holding the throat or neck area is not allowed.
  • The moment any child complains about being hurt, play time is over.

While rough and tumble is an important play form for your child to learn, make sure you are always around to ensure it does not turn aggressive.

Does your child love the rough and tumble play? What activities does he do? Tell us below.

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