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13 Best Ideas To Handle Your Child Temper Tantrums

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While there is no magic fix, there are some great ways you can handle your children’s temper tantrum and get them to be more obedient and disciplined.

From the first time your baby uttered the word ‘mama’, to his tiny little steps when he finally started to walk, you’ve loved your baby through it all, and you love him even more with each passing day. However, as children grow up and stretch their horizons, there is bound to be a difference of opinion.

Handling child temper tantrums can be emotionally and physically draining for you, but don’t worry, it’s not just your kid. Almost all kids argue and fret and throw tantrums at certain points of their lives, it’s just you who has to learn and deal with it. Below are some techniques to handle flaring temper among kids and help you establish a great mother-child relationship.

What Is A Temper Tantrum And Why Do Kids Throw Tantrums?

From whining and crying to screaming, hitting and kicking, temper tantrums in kids may vary in

terms of severity, and this is most commonly noted in boys and girls between the ages 1 to 3 years.

Unlike adults, kids do not have the sense of control, so they feel frustrated at the lack of their ability to get their way. Remember the time when you felt at loss of control in a particular situation, and felt terrible? Well, that’s exactly how your child may be feeling, except that he doesn’t realize he’s supposed to control the way he behaves.

[ Read: Behavioral Problems In Children ]

It is believed that a kid may throw tantrums for different reasons: when he’s hungry, seeking attention, seeking assurance or just feeling uncomfortable. Often, children throw temper tantrums when you don’t give in to their demands; it can be anything, a particular toy or some unreasonable demand!

Handling Public Tantrums:

The worst thing is when your kid throws a tantrum in public view. It’s just plain embarrassing and also angering! Instead of handling your kid in an inappropriate way at this time, try to stay calm and do what an effective parent would do.

When your kid throws a temper tantrum in public, the best way to handle the situation is to try and distract him. If that still doesn’t help, get into your car or take him back home, and it’s now time to take some appropriate measures to make sure it doesn’t happen again.

Before The Next Tantrum:

Occasional temper tantrums may be acceptable, but if you find your kid crying or demanding things every few days, you will need to sort things out. Before your child throws another tantrum, here’s what you need to know.

  • Keep your expectations realistic. No matter how much you intervene, your child will need time to be better behaved. Give him the time to understand that what he is doing is wrong.
  • Shell out more time for your kid. Instead of running 15 errands at a time, break up your schedule into smaller portions and try to make it more manageable and get your child some more attention.
  • Explain your child some principles of good behavior. Read out bedtime stories of cartoon characters that have good morals and set an example of good behavior.
  • Make sure you do not give in to your child’s request- every single time though. If you succumb to his demands every time, you’re actually encouraging him to throw tantrums each time he wants something.

[ Read: Emotional Disorders In Children ]

Top 13 Ideas To Handle Kids Temper Tantrums:

If your child is throwing temper tantrums more often than acceptable, it’s time to intervene and take some necessary steps to ensure that your child is well behaved and in control of his emotions. Here are some ways and how to cope with temper tantrums in kid.

1. Avoid ‘No’, ‘Don’t’ and ‘Stop’:

This is one of the best ways to stop temper tantrums in your kids. Though it may be tough, but it’s the most basic rule you’ve got to master when it comes to handling your kid’s temper tantrums. You do not have to say ‘yes’ for everything, but try to avoid negative words that may make your kid feel as if he is being defeated and rendered powerless.

Understand that the conversation you have with your kid during a temper tantrum doesn’t have to be a power struggle. You need to be a little less authoritative and gentle when dealing with your kid at this stage. Instead of saying “No, I don’t want you to do this,” try saying “I would love it if you do this for your mommy.”

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