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5 Best Ways To Discipline Your Child

5 best ways to discipline your child

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Disciplining is an integral part of parenting. In order to teach children actions and consequences and shape them as better individuals, it is necessary to discipline children.

But What’s The Best Way To Do That?

To some extent, disciplining kids is very important. It eventually aids them later in life to earn the proper respect by society. It also acts as a reminder to your children that they should not commit the same mistakes again.

The problem is some parents do not know the appropriate ways to discipline their children. To help you in that, we present some effective ways.

Top 5 Ways On How To Discipline Your Child:

Parenting does not mean showering constant love, care and affection upon your children. It encompasses the harder side as well. Sometimes, children do behave badly and need correction. It is vital to discipline ill mannered children when they stretch their boundaries.

Here we take a look at the 5 methods of disciplining children, widely used by parents:

1. Rewarding Good Behavior:

Most parents are forced to punish their children when they are naughty, either by losing their temper or through sheer helplessness. But more often, they also forget the times their kids behave well.

  • Focus more on the good times. This way, your kids would feel motivated. For e.g., if you invited some guests at your home and your kids did not cause any mischief during their entire stay, you could reward them with dessert or a comic book.
  • Also, if your children did better than you expected, for example, if they genuinely interacted nicely and made your guests happy with their talks and attitude, then your reward must be even more special, like an movie or a picnic outing.

[ Read: Child Behavior Checklist ]

2. Snatching Away Privileges:

If your kids behave badly, you can take away their privileges. For example, if your kids don’t study well, you could tell them that they are not allowed to watch T.V.

  • By snatching away their liberties and privileges, you could teach them to come back on the right track. They would do anything to get back the same.
  • By teaching that ‘good behavior begets good reward,’ and that ‘bad behavior begets bad results’ you may influence your kids to control their mischievous side!

3. Neutralizing Arguments:

There are some kids who argue incessantly with their parents. This leads to more negativity and conflicts. As parents, you should neutralize the arguments and not take the same any further.

  • Speaking less can make the point clearer to them. Neutralizing arguments teaches your kids to be not over persuasive and too adamant. It makes them feel satisfied.
  • They will learn that there is no use arguing and it’s best to stop for everyone’s betterment. Thus, they learn to adjust with their shortcomings and start looking at life differently.

[ Read: Bad Habits For Children ]

4. Timing-Out:

Timing-out is a widespread approach to the discipline of your children wherein they are sent away from the family members after they cause a problem. In short, it involves keeping your children away from your family for sometime so that they can reflect on their wrongdoings and apologize.

  • The 1-2-3 method of time-out is very effective in this regard. When your kids behave badly, say to them, ‘that’s 1′ and don’t scold or say anything else. Wait for five seconds and see if they change their behavior.
  • If not, say to them, ‘that’s 2.’ Wait for five more seconds and on seeing no changes in their naughtiness, say, ‘that’s 3,’ after which put them in ‘time out.’ This method helps your kids improve their behavior within a given time limit failing which they are subjected to time-out.

[ Read: Aggression In Children ]

5. Grounding:

Another kind of disciplining is grounding wherein your children are confined to their homes and miss their fun activities. A child-friendly version of ‘house-arrest’!

  • More effective for older children, your kids are not allowed to mingle with their friends or do anything outside their homes apart from attending school.
  • Grounding stops them from socializing and having fun. It teaches them to behave well in the future so that similar circumstances can be avoided.

[ Read: Temper Tantrums ]

All children are unique, and parents should remember this before punishing their children. What is effective in case of one family may not be in case of another. And ways of disciplining that are apt for toddlers might not be apt for teenagers!

Thus, the key to proper disciplining is figuring out the right technique and holding on to it so that decent behavior can be expected.

Do you know more ideas on how to discipline your child? Share them with us.

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